As a beginning teacher in New Zealand, we are given a huge
professional development allowance equalling one day every teaching week of the
first year. My flatmates always knew when I’d had my PD day because I hadn’t
met my usual teacher’s quota of talking at work, so that evening I would talk
and talk and talk and talk. They’d say
to me: didn’t you teach today?
Moving cities, with a lot less friends and virtually no
work, and certainly no classroom teaching type work, I think I’ve learned to
talk less. Probably Jbird has to tune me out at times. Because I’m only home
for two weeks, I’ve prioritised to see a bunch of really close
friends, we’ve had a lovely amount to catch up on and I get to talk and talk
and talk and talk. It has been wonderful.
I’m looking forward to growing a few ‘heart friends’ (see:
this post) in Bloomington,
those that I won’t feel I need to bite my tongue around too much. It's not just that though, people who know my history, where I've come from. It just takes time.
learnt or learned? My NZ dictionary allows both...
Sometimes it takes less time than you think... those people who you just instantly connect with. It doesn't happen all the time... but it does happen. Stay hopeful Annabel!
ReplyDeleteLove, love, love you chatter box and your yogurt cup cakes to! Syls
ReplyDeleteHey Syls and Steph, thanks for visiting. Mmmm, I might have to make some more today. A xx
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